' The life requires courage above of all the other virtues; perhaps but the biggest example of all the courage human being is perdo.' ' (E. Graham Howe) ' ' The basic formula of all sin is the frustrate love or desprezado.' ' (Frans Werfel) the Art of the Pardon (*) the pardon has a curativa quality. Perhaps this happens because the energy necessary to remain angry with somebody is an energy that disconnect part of the vivacity. It is rigid, implacable and controller. It reduces the flexibility and the amplitude of the irada person.
She is clearly that the anger must follow its progression, being necessary she stops protecting in them of the aggressions and the improprieties of our fellow creatures. Thus, when the oscillation of the pendulum to take it the pardon, does not fight against it. But it remembers that, only because it pardoned somebody magoou that it, you not to pass the life with it. We need to keep our lives in day if to want to remain vital. The pardon capacity cannot necessarily be evoked to the will, but it is possible to create one atmosphere, a predisposition for it. This fact, provoking occasions will be passveis to evoke a perdoadora behavior, instead of a irado behavior, continuous, and as of a born robot of purulentos ressentimentos. Only because she pardons the significant person of its past, for any injustices that have caused it you does not have to undo of its good judgment, together with its anger.
The loving one she abandoned that it, the friend traiu who it, will be able to make it again. All have limits to the growth. The capacity to see the people for what they are allows us to arrive at an agreement with our experiences, instead of enxergar the life through a veil of romantic illusion.